We are in this together – our problems might not be the same but the morals we deduce from them teach what Allah has bestowed us to see. It is a way to expand our wisdom , to look at things with angles different that teach us patience , altruism and courage in the face of calamities and servility in the name of our Lord, Allah SWT. It will break you. Smash you into pieces but remember if Allah asks you to move forward while praying and repenting then its better we may not hang on to it for long. And Allah knows what is the best for us.